The Agbero Blog

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Tired, are you?

I've run this blog for over a year now.
Now, I'm just tired. Blogville is just too much for me.
There's an ocean of blogs to visit, a million comments to drop.
Suddenly I'm jaded.
I want to leave but I don't want to leave. I want to continue writing.
But it's difficult.
All my wives have deserted me. Bumight went to have a baby. Temite started toasting a guy.
Yeah, maybe LG stayed...
I still read blogs though I stopped dropping comments. I noticed that most people sound tired too. Regularly updaters now leave it till two or three weeks to update.
Comments are not as frequent as before. Die-hard bloggers have left. Am I doomed to go that way too?
I'm tired; are you?
I want to be rejuvenated; do you?

PS: Never mind the fine language. I've been attending evening classes.
posted by FineBoy Agbero at 7:55 PM

59 Comments:

i totally feel u........ i had to take a pause.. still read blogs and drop comments occasionally...im waiting for the ultimate motivation..... maybe my blog has run its course...who knows!

May 12, 2009 at 8:26 PM  

write what u feel when u feel. love will respond either way.

May 12, 2009 at 8:29 PM  

waow- 3?

May 12, 2009 at 8:31 PM  

i have to agree with kmplx. Blog whenever u feel like it.
Funmi- i feel u on that too.

Agbero- how are the classes going?

May 12, 2009 at 8:34 PM  

You captured the feelings precisly my dear...

I am just tired yet cant seem to just close shop....

You suddenly have to watch what you say so it's not misconstrued...

Gone are the carefree days...

I follow you tire joh..

May 12, 2009 at 9:38 PM  

Don't leave oh!
who shall shine the light for us young ones....
who will be there to encourage us forward!
who will remind us of why we started this bloggie thingy in the first place....
if you didnt know....
Na YOU!!!

we need you...stick around abeg...
but yea, i get what ya mean,kinda lol

May 12, 2009 at 10:17 PM  

Hmmm, well, i guess we have our tired moments. It's allowed. But me i miss u and all ur sikira stories. Ehn, who will be here to tell us about dancing galala?

Hope all else is well with u though!

May 12, 2009 at 11:23 PM  

It's life..
We smile.. we frown.. We laugh.. We cry..

It is what it is..

May 13, 2009 at 6:20 AM  

yeah true I feel that way too...but I ono...I still trudge on...buttercup enough is my inspiration...

May 13, 2009 at 7:22 AM  

*myloff no try am o, u cant fit lef us naa' abi who else go dey make me shine ma teeth like *malu wey see *matchet????? olowo'ori'mi nobori be lak uuuuuuu


*now stop smiling n update sharply
:-)

May 13, 2009 at 9:41 AM  

A time will always come when you ask yourself if this is the end of the road. Only you can answer that.

May 13, 2009 at 10:29 AM  

If agbero is not who u are anymore than stop...I will miss his stories sha

May 13, 2009 at 10:35 AM  

I agree with Roc. It is life.

Times and Seasons. Call it cycles if you like.

C'est la vie.

May 13, 2009 at 11:22 AM  

Berra stay put. Take a break if you have to.Write what you want to write even if no one is commenting. BTW, there are lot of readers that don't leave comments. Besides, you get Chari to leave comment here when he had abandoned my blog since last yr...

May 13, 2009 at 12:43 PM  

I think everyone feels you on this one- I know I do...
Just blog only when you feel like it- let it not be like a neccessity, U feel like? You do it. You dont feel like? Dont do it. Chikena!
I sure will miss your posts though...

May 13, 2009 at 2:11 PM  

i've been wondering where u dey since. abeg, come back to write. u inspire me.








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May 13, 2009 at 3:17 PM  

write wen u feel like men..thats my new motto

May 13, 2009 at 4:19 PM  

A true writer never stops...

Blogging may stop once in a while, u can take breaks...but somewhere else, maybe with a paper and pen, u'd still be dreaming (personal revelation...lol).

Oh, yeah...you could try to update only once a week to keep your juices flowing...but focus more on your classes :)

May 13, 2009 at 4:45 PM  

Y'ello!!!!
E ma update ke?
Ki la ri?
And why are you going all soft?
Where's the fineboy agbero i used to know???
You have to stop those your evening lessons please.

May 13, 2009 at 5:49 PM  

My Darling husband,
ha!
I no leaf u na. U were gone so long and u know say body no be wiya wood...I try to help u out ni joo. Pele ma binu. COme here...come on....I beg no vex jooo. I am still ur one and only wife joo.
But on the reals tho,
I feel it too.... take a break. write when u feel like it and comment when u are compelled to. remember that everything good will come!

May 14, 2009 at 12:18 AM  

You were sounding too serious (yes I know you are serious) until u mentioned the evening classes...how now? Me I missed reading ur humourous posts...

Yeah, we get tired with blogging once in a while, and keeping up with blogs. It is even sadder to see some leave. But then, remember that when you started the blog, you had a purpose.

May your oil never run dry.
[Even God rested...]

May 14, 2009 at 7:54 AM  

Just blog when you feel like & however you feel like.

Your evening classes are paying off.

May 14, 2009 at 9:22 AM  

Don't stop....I love your blog!!

May 14, 2009 at 12:05 PM  

Hey, just bumped in on your blog as the name attracted me on BUmight's page and i loved it instantly so pls do not stop. Though i'm kinda new but i too get tired sometimes(already!) but when it happens,take a chill pill,relax and rememba all the fun you've had so far,the inspiration will still come back but then just write what you can.comment what you can and you'll be just fine!

Bottomline? Stay on pls.

May 14, 2009 at 1:12 PM  

WOW!!!
I don die o! I'm blushin! See all dis fine-fine people wey wan make i stay!
May Orunmila bless you all!
No worry, i no comot go anywhere!

PS: Big reward comin ur way on dis blog soon. Watch out!!!

May 14, 2009 at 8:38 PM  

I was just going to leave a comment when I read your's. lol...you no well abeg.

May 15, 2009 at 3:49 PM  

Hang in there man.

May 16, 2009 at 3:04 PM  

I don't want you to leave! You've already started to seem like just a memory and i hate that. Ass kissing aside, this is the only blog i read (I'm not a blogging person) so don't go.
But i guess i understand, you have to do what you have to do.
P.s: Please dont go

May 16, 2009 at 5:36 PM  

its just the time of the yr..i think...when it starts to get cold agian and ppl r in deir houses...they shall blog again! i think...lol

May 18, 2009 at 3:47 AM  

lol on the fact that you've been going to evening classes...
Please don't go o! abeg...what will blogville be without you...yeah take a break but don't make it a permanent one...I guess we've all been busy sorting our lives out...I know we will all be back on blogville again...I myself haven't been updating regularly...but I remain part of blogville ladn...(just like 9ice said!!!)

May 18, 2009 at 6:20 AM  

Bros no do like that....

se as your people no wan hear se you leave.. your blog was one of the first i ever read and the mere thought of it dissapearing makes me want to go to a garage and start shouting you name ;" TJ, TJ"... no make i go shame myself oh....

May 18, 2009 at 9:34 AM  

*black man agberoooooo, r u still blushing?!?!? k'mon update jare :-)

May 18, 2009 at 11:28 AM  

you speak my mind... i read blogs but to drop a comment is so much wahala i dont even bother unless the post really hits me.... i have been jaded for forever anyway so perhaps my case is different!

lol

May 23, 2009 at 11:47 AM  

boy do i feel u on this!

May 24, 2009 at 9:38 AM  

First, don't go abeg....you can go off and come back.
I find that taking a breather when i want works for me, i don't see blogging as a chore or as a job, i do it when i feel like and i want to, that way i continue to feel like doing it.
Btw, since Temite is my sis, i'll talk to her to come back to you...winks*...will that do the trick? hehehe

May 25, 2009 at 5:04 PM  

u are obviously reflecting the mind of many.

but the truth is why do people blog? Personally i blog because i want to keep writing. I really don't see why people should be tired of their passion.

May 26, 2009 at 12:17 PM  

Hi there!

Blogging is tiring...it is hard work!!

All blog hosts realize at one point or another that they have to intentionally take steps to expand their blog community or else a blog clique will form and the same group will be frequenting their blog sharing the same mentalities.

A blog needs fresh input and many thoughts that challenge what is "expected" from the group of regulars who visit the forum.

June 5, 2009 at 6:15 PM  

I enjoy blogging but I don't take it too serious. I post whenever I can because sometimes I'm too busy to do so.

June 12, 2009 at 3:09 AM  

i almost fell down wen i read d english...lol. u even wrote stuff b4 gettin tired. got tired even to have a second update..lol. but i feel u totali on dis 1. (do u noe how long i wait 4 u to update??? lol)

June 13, 2009 at 10:50 PM  

geez...the disease is spreading. I am hanging on by a frayed thread, sha.

Tory dey plenty but time and energy no dey to talk am.

Anyway, Agbero, I was thinking about you and your roguish ways only to see that an update is necessary and you dey blow funeee. O ga oh!

See you around and BTW, make i find ya email self...

June 23, 2009 at 1:50 PM  

agbero, I no get ya email. When you read this, send me a line at solomonsydelle (at) gmail (dot) com.

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June 24, 2009 at 10:46 PM  

FBA,

if you go I'll commit suicide..o!

July 7, 2009 at 5:20 PM  

I just read this
I feel you, but like a lot of people had said, one can take breaks and then blog/comment only when we feel we are up to it!

I took about 3 months break from blogging (I got tired of keeping up with so many blog too, I really was jaded like you said) and I would not hesitate to take another break when I fee like again

Guess you are doing well
and make you greet your evening class teasher well, the classes are paying off
( I hope you don't carry kerosene lantern to the classes)

July 14, 2009 at 1:25 PM  

okay. now i dont feel guilty anymore. I think people just got busier really. and like everyother thing, there's a peak period, and blogville had it.

July 20, 2009 at 2:27 PM  

Oya now wey him don go, make una come my blog. I am new n fresh and yet to quit.
http://oyantalkative.blogspot.com

July 22, 2009 at 11:03 AM  

My frd u are speakin d truth. I ran away for a couple of months and i just started visiting blogsville again. Shd i beg LG for u?

July 23, 2009 at 3:35 PM  

i reinvented myself and i only blog to get away from my world or when im going thru hell... no pressures, just do it when yu want oh!

July 24, 2009 at 3:34 PM  

Fineguy how u dey?i feel yaaa afta gono don attack u the best thing for na to evacuate this bewhodini called BLOGVILLE.....urs ololufe ale elo mi Sikiratu :)

July 30, 2009 at 12:03 AM  

myloff how far????i don dey try to reach u, ur line no dey available, abeg hala me, e dey important o

August 7, 2009 at 10:52 AM  

kilode? i stumble on ur after searching for a long tym n nw u want 2 go....dnt o
plus dis break self, me feel lyk cuttin it short small o!
blog soon

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August 31, 2009 at 11:12 AM  

Bros, am new to your blog. Your creativity is amazing. I feel you cos even me wey just start dey tire sometimes. In any case, you have inspired me. Hope we continue to hear from you...

March 2, 2011 at 2:39 PM  

blog fatigue?

May 9, 2011 at 9:15 PM  

If you are busy, then don't forced yourself to write. Just don't totally leave blogging. A lot of your readers will miss you, and that includes me :).

March 16, 2012 at 4:33 PM  

You as a blogger in my humble opinion needs not to reply every single comment on your post. Because of you do, indeed it can be tiresome for you. I guess sharing your experience to your readers is good enough.

June 11, 2012 at 4:20 AM  

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